To close out this series, we come to the most difficult part of developing Spiritual Fruit. The ultimate question is: “How do we develop these Godlike characteristics?” I don’t know about you, but that really stretches me because I realize I have difficulty objectively measuring myself to God’s standard of “completeness.” The biggest challenge we all face is that our personalities cause us to either over or under evaluate our progress. Not too many of us are unbiased and objectively honest.
As you go through these characteristics realize they can seem impossible. The reality is that God does not demand perfection, but effort and the right motivation. He displays these characteristics daily and will never let us down – which is something He hopes we emulate in our interaction with others.
The first concept is Faithfulness. The word: “Pistis” it paints a picture of a person whom you can trust. They are people of conviction, sticking with a choice despite easier options. They are firm in their devotion to God, loyal to their friends, live up to their responsibilities and can be counted on. According to Hebrews 11:6 this is a requirement of us. The challenge is exhibiting this all day every day the way God does in 2 Timothy 2:13. This is our challenge and HE KNOWS IT! That is why he gives us time and displays patience. Our job is to grow past the initial “rush” or passion of salvation, marvels and experiences to a position of stronger and stronger faith. That is how we know we are maturing.
The second concept of Gentleness is described with the Greek word “Prautes.” It illustrates someone who is humble, meek, submissive to God’s will and moldable by the Spirit. The word also implies a genuine modesty, unpretentiousness, and a non-threatening demeanor originating from a position of strength and authority. It is often the key element in calming another’s anger. Unfortunately, this is often the antithesis of mine and other’s natural response. Learning to count internally may be a good first step but it needs to go past that based on Titus 3:2. Being gentle to everyone will be a real challenge to an extrovert. It may not be as apparent in an introvert, but inside the flame can burn and God sees that also.
Our final characteristic is Self-Control. Paul uses “Egkratea” to describe someone who possesses the discipline to regulate their emotions and responses. They refuse to allow adversarial people or enemies to rule their hearts or take them emotionally captive. They simply restrain their actions, reactions and desires. They are in harmony with God and do not let people or circumstances countermand what’s right. Plainly you cannot let others control you. God is in control and this is a test, not a temptation!
Now the past three days may have seemed like I am preaching to you and telling you how to live your life. You should know me well enough by now that I do not make your decisions for you – that’s your job because you have to answer for them. What I am trying to do is give you a foundation so you understand what’s right and proper according to scripture.
Now, HEAR ME WELL! You will not grow into these characteristics overnight. Spiritual fruit is gradual in its development. It takes time and your heart must be right as I pointed out several days ago. NEVER DESPAIR! Spiritual fruit is inevitable for you and every believer. Between life and God’s Spirit it will come, but it will come within your heart and spirit. Most importantly, it will come in balanced proportion as God sees your capacity grow. (Proverbs 16:9) Love Dad