One of the challenging parts of life, especially serving in a ministry reaching a large number of people, is dealing with the inevitable — death. At some point in our lives we all have to face the situation and glean what God wants us to learn by the person’s life that touched us. There will always be something that we learn from their existence, personality and their interactions. So in 2008 we honored Jeremiah C. Hughes, a former Martial Arts student of our ministry and an exceptional student at Sandalwood High School in Jacksonville, Florida.
Jerry was focused in his martial arts training and liked by the other students in our Mandarin school. While many students come and go in a “free” ministry there are relatively few who stick with a martial arts program to attain the rank Jerry reached. During that time people get to know you and your character. The few years he was around made a profound impact on several of those who have remained in our ministry, especially those who rose to the rank of Senior or Master Instructor. For those gentlemen the value of Jerry’s live is still alive and vivid in their memories. Today, as they reach out and teach other students they realize the limited time they may have with some students. They have told me on more than one occasion how they often wonder if we will lose others the way we lost Jerry.
Jerry left a legacy to many of us who knew him. When you consider the word legacy a number of things come to mind – Being rich, famous, standing out in a crowd, being “bigger than life itself” or something grandiose like that. All of which are held in esteem in the world’s eyes. Yet the dictionary uses words like: inheritance, heritage, bequest and birthright. He, as imperfect as all of us, but one who did many things right left those things to those who knew him. The parts we choose to remember about Jerry are the things that comprise his legacy. Because I know that is what God honors.
Let’s consider some aspects of his Legacy: Jerry taught his family, friends and other martial artists the value of determination against many odds. His service served as a hedge of protection to all of us who remain safe in a nation of freedom. He faced fear when others would not. He served to sustain his family and others. He served to maintain his respect and that of a nation sorely needing it. He served all of us to protect the freedom of worship which allows us an eternal position in Heaven. Yet in our busyness most of us just remember is his smile or his determination to do a side kick well. The value of a human life is beyond our knowledge and understanding. One human life impacts so many and changes the lives they touch in both their death and life.
While each of you are much younger than me, it is never too soon to consider your legacy and how you will impact those you come in touch with. Plant a seed. That’s all God asks. If He wants you to water it, you will have the chance. Just be there. Be loving, caring and willing to invest what you have.
Love Dad